Welcome to one of the most unpleasant, but unfortunately common phenomena of our modern era: ghosting. One day you're talking daily with someone you think is interested in you, and the next... silence. No responses, no calls, no explanations. And the worst part? Your message shows 'Read'. Suddenly, your phone becomes a burden, a constant reminder that you weren't important enough for a simple reply.

But don't despair! Below you will find tips to overcome these unrequited romantic situations and come out stronger from the experience.

#1 Recognize Your Feelings

Firstly, accept that it is completely normal to feel sad, angry, or disappointed. These feelings are an indication that you genuinely cared about the relationship, even if it wasn't official.

 

#2 Talk About How You Feel

Express yourself! Talk to friends, family, or a professional if you feel you need it. Share your thoughts and questions. Even if you don’t get all the answers, you might have wanted, venting will help you feel better.

 

#3 Re-examine Your Expectations

Did you expect more than what was reasonable for the other person to give? This is a good opportunity to think about what exactly you want from a relationship and how you define communication in it.

 

#4 Give Yourself Time

As with any loss, ghosting requires time to get over the shock and sadness. Allow yourself to feel what you need and to move on at your own pace.

 

#5 Set New Goals and Interests

Introduce new activities into your life or revisit those you had neglected. This will help you think less about the past and create new, pleasant memories.

 

#6 Move Forward

Finally, keep your head up and keep moving forward. The world is full of people who will truly appreciate what you offer. Don't let a minor episode hold you back from your big dreams and the opportunities waiting for you.

 

Ghosting can be a tough road, but the path after it is filled with renewal and self-discovery. Don't forget, there is always light at the end of the tunnel!

xx,
Z